If love is blind, it’s my job to take the blinders off and let you know how to make slight adjustments that will lead you to greater happiness.And let me be the first to tell you, greater happiness doesn’t rest in choosing a guy who’s just like you.I’m a girl, an American-Indian girl, and therefore am not Swedish.
Then he initiated contact saying that he’s happy we are still friends and we kind of talked on and off for another week or so.Swedish girls are everything what you fantasize about.They are tall, beautiful, blonde (although artificially blond dyed hair), busty, athletic, and strong.That is, if we know that we have you, there’s no need to chase.To build on that, if we feel that you are acting in a way that is intended to make us chase, we’ll remember it. On the other hand, a woman who has a total wall up will not get guys to chase her.Over and over, you plug away, trying to make things work, even though it should be readily apparent by now: there’s not necessarily something wrong with YOU, nor is every man in your life fatally flawed. Two great ingredients don’t necessarily taste good together. So what we’re here to do is try to reduce this to a simple science, finding a man who’s not just a great guy, but finding a man who’s a great fit for your life.